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Author: Jenika McCrayer (She/Her)

On Being My Own Worst Critic

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I’m tired of this vicious internal cycle of unrealistic expectations, ultimate failure, abuse. I have the whole damn society to do that for me, and here I am, doing the work. Typical.

Jenika McCrayer (She/Her) June 5, 2019 Health & Wellness, Social Issues & Politics, Work & Money

Seeking Love Elsewhere

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My parents hissed, howled, gnashed their teeth at me in order to prepare me for “the real world” […]

Jenika McCrayer (She/Her) April 30, 2019 Health & Wellness, Poetry, Relationships & Community

I’m Not Wasting Time On Bad Friendships Anymore

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2018 was a great year for personal growth, the highlight being finally prioritizing my mental health and starting […]

Jenika McCrayer (She/Her) March 21, 2019 Health & Wellness, Relationships & Community

Capitalism

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At work I am a person without wants, needs, desires, hobbies, interests, loved ones, weekends. At work I […]

Jenika McCrayer (She/Her) August 2, 2018 Poetry

To Be A Wife

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To be a wife is to be oddly observant of how your eyelashes gently kiss the high points […]

Jenika McCrayer (She/Her) June 7, 2018 Relationships & Community

A Demanding Birthday Girl

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I don’t understand birthdays. I wish there was a universal way to celebrate birthdays that would take the […]

Jenika McCrayer (She/Her) May 16, 2018 Relationships & Community

Pride

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I am too proud to ask you what’s wrong. So I shrug my shoulders and say you “need […]

Jenika McCrayer (She/Her) April 5, 2018 Poetry

Surviving a Job You Hate

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The worst job I’ve ever endured was not necessarily horrible because of the job itself, but due to […]

Jenika McCrayer (She/Her) March 21, 2017 Work & Money

Reflections On International Women’s Day

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I woke up yesterday in a mood. Taking the day off would have been too much of a […]

Jenika McCrayer (She/Her) March 9, 2017 Culture & Media, Social Issues & Politics, Work & Money

My Black Feminist ‘A-Ha’ Moment

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I was born in 1991—the dawn of the Girl Power era. Feminism as we knew it was over, […]

Jenika McCrayer (She/Her) February 7, 2017 Culture & Media, Social Issues & Politics

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